I wish I figured it all out 20 years ago, or at the very least wasn’t such a miserable bastard with narcissistic tendencies. I didn’t get my Low Latent Inhibition diagnosis until I was in my forties. Same goes for my Autism Spectrum Disorder diagnosis. My ex-wife, Martine, gets the assist for that one. After 15 years of not knowing whatever happened to her I got an email from her informing me our daughter, Veronica, was diagnosed with the same thing.
Poor me. Poor everyone really. I live a charmed life compared to others. There are a lot of people in Gaza who would agree with me for sure.
My entire life has been a comedy of errors and poor decisions. Mental illness is not the blame. Not autism. I knew what I was doing almost all of the time, even when I was as manic as a donut. And when I wasn’t manic or disassociated, I just had a complete lack of compassion.
I burst out of the womb into a family of horrible people. My mother was a lying cheating narcissist who’s probably hopping coals in hell right now. But I loved her. But she taught us we were all expendable. My poor step father didn’t know how to discipline in a way that didn’t hospitalize me on several occasions.
I had to learn to survive at all costs at my young age. Again, cakewalk compared to others but this isn’t Others.com.
There are a lot of stories to tell, and I will. It’s happening. A book is coming. I’ll be on here regularly.
I think I’m done running. I think I’m home. I’m sorry it took me this long to find my true form. There is a new record on its way too. But it’s going to be different this time.
Thanks to those who’ve been paying attention to the trainwreck known as Doug Hell. Hopefully a redemption arc will come of this, whether I deserve it or not.